Marriage is a scared thing.
Who dares to disagree with me about that statement? For those whose already married you all know better... but for those who still single... there are many questions which lingers on. There's this question about is it the right time yet? Are you too old to or too young to be married? Then some may concern about their financial situation. For ladies if you are in tumble .. some may consider marriage as a solution... but for men... are you financially strong and stable yet to support another human being? But most importantly most of wonders about are we marring the right person? I know i did. But this is a tricky bit... When we in love... everything seems rosy n pretty .. Our judgment are blinded with our emotion that we able to look past all the bad stuff.
For me ultimately, marriage is about compromising. If you're wife is such a bad cook... you compromise... and if you husband has a funny tamper .. you compromise. Only by compromising each other you will be able to look past all the imperfection which suddenly appear after you said " aku terima nikah nya. bla bla bla..." You're wife may seems so sexy with the right porpotion of body parts during courtship... but only after you consummate your marriage you discovered that some part her bodies are artifically enhanced and Some parts are actually not as big as its seems from outside. You definitely have to compromise. Well that's my opinion anyway.
Personally.. I feel that I'm getting what I always wanted in men. Big, tall, handsome with great behind. (Its all about the behind babe! ) We are far from perfect... but with we are happy .. he might has some issue with me, he might be angry at me at times but most of the time.. i feel that he managed to find his peace with me. Hopefully this will only gets better as we grow older.
You might wonder why the hell this Geanie is rumbling about marriage all of the sudden. The reason is i just heard the wonderful news that one of my good friend is getting married this Tuesday. Most you know her. She had the most tragic love affairs which I've come across when we were studying. The culture, the race and the religious issue does matter back then. The brake up was disastrous as well. We cried back then but now we are able to laugh when we flashback her love stories. How time really flies... All you know its almost ten years ahead and now she's getting hitch. Unfortunately she didn't allow me to broadcast the news directly.
So indirectly .. this posting is dedicated to you LJN....hiks hiks.. may you have a happy marriage and bless with loves, happiness and even childs when you guys are ready. CONGRATULATION. Even though she said i didn't have to come.. but you has my hearties congratulation.
Chow
Who dares to disagree with me about that statement? For those whose already married you all know better... but for those who still single... there are many questions which lingers on. There's this question about is it the right time yet? Are you too old to or too young to be married? Then some may concern about their financial situation. For ladies if you are in tumble .. some may consider marriage as a solution... but for men... are you financially strong and stable yet to support another human being? But most importantly most of wonders about are we marring the right person? I know i did. But this is a tricky bit... When we in love... everything seems rosy n pretty .. Our judgment are blinded with our emotion that we able to look past all the bad stuff.
For me ultimately, marriage is about compromising. If you're wife is such a bad cook... you compromise... and if you husband has a funny tamper .. you compromise. Only by compromising each other you will be able to look past all the imperfection which suddenly appear after you said " aku terima nikah nya. bla bla bla..." You're wife may seems so sexy with the right porpotion of body parts during courtship... but only after you consummate your marriage you discovered that some part her bodies are artifically enhanced and Some parts are actually not as big as its seems from outside. You definitely have to compromise. Well that's my opinion anyway.
Personally.. I feel that I'm getting what I always wanted in men. Big, tall, handsome with great behind. (Its all about the behind babe! ) We are far from perfect... but with we are happy .. he might has some issue with me, he might be angry at me at times but most of the time.. i feel that he managed to find his peace with me. Hopefully this will only gets better as we grow older.
You might wonder why the hell this Geanie is rumbling about marriage all of the sudden. The reason is i just heard the wonderful news that one of my good friend is getting married this Tuesday. Most you know her. She had the most tragic love affairs which I've come across when we were studying. The culture, the race and the religious issue does matter back then. The brake up was disastrous as well. We cried back then but now we are able to laugh when we flashback her love stories. How time really flies... All you know its almost ten years ahead and now she's getting hitch. Unfortunately she didn't allow me to broadcast the news directly.
So indirectly .. this posting is dedicated to you LJN....hiks hiks.. may you have a happy marriage and bless with loves, happiness and even childs when you guys are ready. CONGRATULATION. Even though she said i didn't have to come.. but you has my hearties congratulation.
Chow
10 comments:
Oooooooooooo.....but Bujang better....kan Bai
ish aku ingat ko duduk atas pokok tuh haha. Kahwin ni mmg lah kena compromise dan selalu doa semoga berkekalan. Tak berani nak komen lebih2 lah. sbb ada org kawin 20 tahun pun boleh bercerai. Byk2 kan doa.
aiks.. tu aku laa tu gee oii... jgn lupa datang umah aku weekend nie.. klu tak datang aku sekeh kau
apsal sebut nama aku tu ?
hehehe.. aku pun tak tau.. rasa macam nak kawin..
tapi skrg ni aku rasa macam nak kawin just as an obligation to my parents.. nothing more.
Bai...ko kawin pasai tak nak org kata ko gay kottttt
wakakaka bai sejak bila ko jadik gay ni? seb baik masa jadik roomate ko, ke gay an ko tak terserlah.. wakakakaka.. anyway sally tengkiu for the food.. :)
sorry tak dapat lepak lama.. anak ako mengaruk nak tidor....
psst psst... kalau selalu lepak abeh anak ko nanti jadik kawan anak ako.. hehe
uh sori takleh datang rumah ko semalam.. ramai ke dtg? taruk la gambar2....
makanan mmg sedaplah. especially masak tempoyak tuh huhuhu.
terima kasih krn berjaya mengsaikokan aku ke rumah ko hahaha.
Suka sgt kaorang datang.... To those yang sakit perut tak??? Aku apologise in advance
TQ
ada yang sakit perut ker? musykil nye aku
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